Should a Raped Woman Abort her Child?

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Nothing in this world is black and white. Every situation has an entire rainbow of different ways to look at it. While some people only see one way or another, two ways aren’t even scratching the surface. In the case of whether a raped woman should keep or abort her child, there are a lot of ways to look at it.

On the one hand, if she allows the baby that was produced by rape to live, it will benefit the cause of the rapist. One of the subliminal reasons why a rapist practices their namesake is to breed. While they might not be thinking about it at the time, having children is a supplementary result and potential goal of a rapist. When a child born from rape grows up, they will be more likely to become a rapist. It’s literally in their blood, after all.

However, one could also argue that every child deserves to live just as much as anyone else does. When a child is terminated without ever even having the chance to live, no one knows what sort of things he or she might have accomplished with a life. A rapist may also be a contender for the Nobel Prize in physics, for all anyone knows. The tough part about making such a decision as this one is in how many things no one can know. While benefiting a rapist is a bad decision, punishing a child for it’s birth father’s actions is another one.

Supporting Rape Victims

Rape is a horrible crime that far too many men and women are experiencing. It’s a situation that shouldn’t be wished on your worst enemy. If you’ve learned that your friend was a victim of this horrible crime, it’s important to be there and help our friend heal after this emotional and physical ordeal. Let them know they’re not alone and you’ll be there for them. Rape is not just a horrible crime, but the person was also personally violated.

When supporting rape victims, be on their side and believe what they’re telling you. Did you know that the least reported crime in the United States is rape? This is because people tend to not believe the rape victim, causing them to feel ashamed. Your friend trusts you; this is why they came to you seeking help.

Your friend is the victim in this horrible crime. No one will ever deserve to be raped. It doesn’t matter what that rapist reasons are, no one deserves to be violated like that. It doesn’t matter if she drank too much or wore a short skirt, it will never be the victim’s fault. Never! Put yourself in your friend’s shoes. Would you want to be blamed? Before anything, it’s important to tell your friend that what happened wasn’t his or her fault.

While it’s easy to tell your friend to report it and go to the hospital, he or she has to make the choice to do that. This is a hard thing to do, so let your friend know you’ll be there every step of the way. The last thing you want to do is force them to do something they might not be ready to do.